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Your Best Offense: It’s Not About You

Let’s set the stage. You get into a discussion, which turns into an argument. You take the other person’s words personally, and inevitably get your feelings hurt. Now what? One of the greatest distractions, seductions, and temptations is to “get” our feelings hurt. To obsess about how another person behaves or responds is an easy and […]

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How to Love the Yuck

We all have yuck in our lives: people, circumstances, chores, body issues. To get rid of it, you gotta love it all — even that which makes you sick to your stomach. I’ll say that again: Love the yuck, baby. Remember that old adage you’ve heard a million times — what you resist persists? It’s […]

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The Key to Self-Love: Be Your Real Self

Self-love. You read about it, you dabble in it, and then you “quit” it in pursuit of bettering yourself with potions, promotions, and critical self-talk. Judging yourself is learned behavior, not innate. You come into this world as the most glorious and perfect expression of life. There is no-thing like you. The unique way you […]

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Your Word is Your Wand

We all use the power of the word to express how we feel, what we want, and what we don’t want. It’s often hard to remember that our word can be one of the most effective tools to create the lives we really want — not the lives we construct with daily routine and to-do […]

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Get Real: Become Your Own Spiritual Leader

What would it take for you to consider yourself a spiritual leader? Would it require becoming a vegan? A meditator? Having peaceful interactions with everyone you meet? Here’s what I know: The days of pedestals holding up spiritual leaders are gone. It was a paradigm that some assumed to maintain dominance and others assumed to […]

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Get to Give: How to Open Yourself to Receiving More

You hear the refrain often: Give to get. But we can’t expect to give unless we are open and receptive, unless we see our abilities to be able to give…and receive.   Let me explain. When you start to see every experience as a privilege, your life will turn, shift, and expand. Imagine approaching every bill, […]

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How to Fall Madly in Love…With the World

Love: It might perhaps be the most overused word today. And yet it’s so damn powerful. You are a lover. No matter how you’ve been used and abused by parents, exes, employers, or even by yourself. Love is your nature. It is nearer than your breath. You are here to have a mad love affair […]

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