Why I Am Here

I was born with everything a girl could want.

My life has been a beautiful, heartbreaking, and complex tapestry of contradictory human experiences. I’ve been privileged. I’ve been poor. I’ve risen above. I’ve been a victim. I’ve found salvation in hip-hop, investment banking, spiritual retreats, parties, workshops, and God.

What you will find with me is a fresh, authentic, loving, and fierce voice. At times, you may experience me as gushy and comforting, or harsh and disruptive. All of that lives in me. And all of it has served my evolution. I trust it serves your journey of personal discovery too.

The gift of my wild ride is a depth of experiences and a wellspring of stories. I realize the extraordinary spirit of resilience, surrender, power, and grace that is accessible to each human being, despite our circumstances—and contrary to any inherited narratives of limitation and despair we may still be living in.

My work on the planet supports individuals in experiencing greater peace and purpose—most easily accessible by interrupting the automatic narratives that run your life and often are not particularly affirming.

I am specifically interested in you developing awareness around the narratives that are currently hidden, not yet identified, and long overdue for a rewrite.

I want you to have a life that is so badass and on fire that you experience ridiculous levels of aliveness and freedom. And, I want you and me to map our unique struggles onto humanity to understand how and where we are contributing to the entrapment and suffering of our global family.

I want to help you get free.

  • Free of imposed limitations that hold you back
  • Free from destructive internal voices that keep you trapped
  • Free from a manufactured version of you that is suppressing and disguising the incredibly unique and gifted human being you really are

What I know is that as you get free, we all get free.

The untangling from paradigms, contexts, and constructs that hold us back is not lite work—it is LIGHT work. It is work that shines the light in the places and spaces we’ve forgotten or neglected.

Thank you in advance for being among the brave and bold that step into the uncharted territories of your mind, body, and spirit. Exploring you and serving love on the planet is the holiest work I know.

Together, we will disrupt the old and step into the new, knowing that the “new” is in fact a return to what was always most true and real: love, beauty, joy, and freedom.

You don’t have to look outside yourself to find the answers. You have them, because you are the answer.

Let’s find our freedom together.

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2 Comments on “Why I Am Here

  • David
    October 17, 2017 at 3:32 pm

    Love this Lola!!!!

  • Doty Catlin
    March 30, 2018 at 6:37 pm

    Thank you Lola. These are the words I needed to hear today, tomorrow and the day after tomorrow. In fact, I think I will read these words everyday until being free becomes my everyday truth. Preach sister! With all my love~Doty

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